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                     Students Tackle Stress
By: Laura McCloskey

A teenage girl attending a Catholic high school felt extremely stressed out.
Her head and stomach ached, she was not sleeping enough, and felt in over
her head. Sound familiar or feel familiar?

This story represents one of the many teens throughout the United States
experiencing stress in their lives, especially related to school. It’s no wonder
teens feel this way considering 80% of all adolescents don’t get the sleep
need. Even worse, 30% of all teens resort to cutting themselves to relieve
stress and suicide rates for students in middle school and up have increased
78%.

Unlike most students feeling stressed, this teen attending Catholic school
did something to change her reality. She joined an organization called
Stressed Out Students (SOS). Denise Clark Pope, a Stanford University
lecturer, started the organization after researching the affects of stress on
students and writing the book, Doing School: How We are Creating a
Generation of Stressed Out, Materialistic, and Miseducated Students. SOS
brings students together with school administrators, teachers, counselors
and parents to improve students’ health, school engagement, and academic
integrity.

Currently, SOS partners with schools to help
students and schools manage the demands
of home, school, work, and life in general.
Schools attend a conference at Stanford
University to address the issue. A group
from each school, including students,
develops an action plan to address the issues
of stress at their school. SOS provides six
months of coaching to the school, in some
cases providing student assemblies and
teacher training related to managing stress
and addressing issues of student health.
The schools reconvene at Stanford and
evaluate the effectiveness of their action plan. Some schools find the
experience has such a positive impact on their school that they attended the
SOS conference four years in a row.

According to Pope, the student members of the SOS groups from each
school wind up being some of the most valuable members of the school
groups. “They are the ones living this problem and often are the best ones
to solve this problem,” says Pope. Students push for change in the
important issues like longer lunch periods, and school administration
listens. Pope recalls one group of students that led the creation of a new
honor code at their school. They wrote the new honor code out, voted on it,
revised it, and now laminated copies of the new honor code are posted in
every classroom at their school.

The teenage girl attending the Catholic school served on the school group
developing the action plan at the SOS conference. At the conference, she
had an eye-opening experience and decided she did not want to lead a
stressed out life anymore. She changed her daily schedule, focused on what
she wanted to do, and even started a club at her school for mental health
issues. She wound up doing better academically and got into a great college.

At another school, the assistant editor for the school newspaper attended
the SOS conference and started using the newspaper to promote change. He
wrote lots of columns relating to improving conditions at school for
students including topics like the importance of sleep and the truth behind
college admission. He became an activist for improving the realities of his
friends who he saw dealing with stress.

Another group of students that attended the SOS conference as part of their
school group put together a website to spread awareness. http://www.
missionsos.net/ The group went back to school, recruited more members
and now spreads their messages of health and well-balance by distributing
bookmarks to students. The bookmarks tell students how to look for signs
of distress in fellow students. The group also provides lunchtime activities
like yoga.

If issues of stress affect your life as a student, there are actions you can take:

Get the basics: Get more sleep – over 9 hours a night, incorporate more
downtime, and eat lunch. Without sleep, your memory gets impacted and
you get sick more often.

Stop over-scheduling: Schedule fewer activities to provide more time for
sleep. Reduce your number of AP and honors and classes and extra
curricular activities. Make sure to anticipate how much time you need for
homework and down time. Are you spending too much time IMing? Try
scheduling more “unplugged” time.

Know the signs of stress and depression: When friends even joke about
committing suicide, take it seriously. Call for help.

Looking at college as a match, not a name: find a college that suits your
interests rather than attending the college that you think will bring you the
most prestige.

SOS has received national praise for their work. Denise Pope has discussed
the issue of students and stress on CNN and in the New York Times. With
their success, SOS plans on expanding their services. They have already
developed student, parent, and teacher surveys to help with the
effectiveness of their intervention. They plan on developing a parent and
teacher curriculum to more directly address the issues of stress in schools.
To find out how you and your school can get involved, go to the Stressed
Out Student website at http://www.stanford.edu/dept/SUSE/sosconference/