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                          Girls' Night In

By: Emily Long

It’s Friday night, and you need
something to do. There are no
interesting movies showing at
the local theater, you’re tired
of the skating rink, and you’ve
been bowling too many times
to count. You want to hang out
with your friends, but nothing
is more boring than sitting at
home.

Who says you have to leave
your house? With a little
imagination and advance
planning, you can host a simple yet fun party for your girlfriends. You
can always invite people over for a spontaneous movie night, but if you
start thinking a few days ahead of time, you can be ready with food,
activities, and even invitations.

For a Friday night event, begin planning on Tuesday or Wednesday. You
want to be sure that your guests don’t make other plans, and you should
give them time to get excited about your event! Make phone calls or use
an email invite system, such as EventBrite or evite. These sites simply
require you to register, and then you can design and send online
invitations and track RSVPs. If you start planning a week or more in
advance, you can visit a stationary store and send out paper invitations.

However you choose to invite your guests, get them energized with your
party theme. You can ask your guests to help you by bringing specific
products or planning individual activities. Use one of the ideas below,
or come up with your own!

Cooking Party: Plan a simple menu and make dinner with your friends.
You can ask everyone to bring the ingredients for their favorite dish, or
you can surprise them with some of yours. Alternatively, you can pick a
certain type of cuisine (Mexican, Italian) and prepare and taste different
recipes along that theme. See this month’s Ethnic Food article for more
ideas. Be sure you use safe kitchen practices, and always clean up when
you finish.

Spa Party: Who doesn’t love a little bit of pampering? Set up stations for
manicures, pedicures, and do-it-yourself facials. Ask each friend to bring
their favorite beauty product, and then test them together: you may find
a new favorite lotion or nail color! You can find travel-size products,
which make great favors, at most drugstores.

Chocolate Party: If you and your friends love chocolate (and who doesn’
t?), devote your whole night to the many ways you can use it! Provide
your guests with different types of chocolate (white, dark, milk, semi-
sweet), or ask everyone to bring several bags or bars of their favorite
brand, and do a taste test. Make a chocolate cake together. Send everyone
home with goodie bags of chocolate beauty products (try Origins Cocoa
Therapy, or look for chocolate-colored lip gloss and nail polish at your
drugstore) and maybe a few leftover sweets as well.

Dance Party: Anyone up for Dance Dance Revolution? Even if you don’t
have the video game, you can still practice your smooth steps. Ask each
guest to make a playlist of songs from a different genre of music and
multiple types of dances. Have a particularly coordinated and creative
friend to choreograph a routine and perform it for your family. Host a
dance-off contest: the winner takes home a new CD or a framed picture of
her moves!

Book Party: This is the fun version of a book club. Ask each guest to bring
a book (or two) she has read recently. At the party, have each person give
a summary of the plot and why they liked the book. Then, exchange with
each other. Don’t forget to put your names inside so each book is returned
to its original owner!

Refreshments are an important part of every party, but you don’t have to
stick to the standard pizza, chips and dip, and soda. If you begin planning
several days ahead, you can have food that matches your theme. You
might serve fruit smoothies at a spa party or energy food, like Luna Bars
and plenty of water, at a dance party. Chocolate fondue would be a hit, as
would chocolate chip pancakes, at a chocolate-themed party. Whatever
you do, keep it simple and fun. You can even do this with only a few
hours of advance notice; you can always dance the night away without
invitations or special foods! Be imaginative and enjoy your weekend!