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Editor's Note: Caitlin Emmons is a freshman at the University of California at Santa
Cruz. This is the second of a monthly blog Caitlin writes about her experiences at
college.
 Caitlin's College Blog

By: Caitlin Emmons

I never thought I would get to a point where I would be able to tell you that I
have completed my first two weeks of college. I have had classes, gotten the
“freshman flu,” and had my fair share of random friend making.  Here are a
few things I learned along the way that might be helpful to you:

1.        Shower shoes are not a joke. I share a bathroom with thirteen other
people, we have two showers and not everyone is as hygienic or healthy as
you, be careful.

2.        Get used to sharing everything. This is by no means a complaint on
my part, my roommates and I have a very “mi casa, su casa” thing going on
and it works. But if you are the type of person that wants to keep your
popcorn to yourself either get over it or be vocal. Sharing isn't limited to
objects, get ready to tell your roomies what is up with you. If you had a bad
class, tell them! If some boy stands you up, tell them! The last thing you
want is to be in a bad mood and have your roomies think it is something they
did, they are after all your new family.

3.        Bring vitamin C supplements. Let
me tell you from first hand experience,
getting the flu is not fun, not productive,
and not a good way to make friends. Last
time I checked sniffling didn't qualify as
a mating call either.  If you can't stop the
illness get ready to fight it. Robitusin,
Nyquil, Dayquil, Theraflu, cough drops,
everything you can possibly think of.
Believe me grocery stores and book stores
seem a lot farther away once you are
already sick.

4.        Don't assume that because you talked to someone before you got to
college and then hung out during welcome week that they will be your
bestie. College is about meeting lots of people and then narrowing from
there, don't start with a set group and hope to venture out later. Everyone is
new here, take advantage of that. Smiling makes you seem much more
approachable.

5.        Find out some college secrets, trust me—all colleges have them. Just
tonight I learned that the coffee bar nearest me gives away coffee, bread,
bagels, and soup for free right before they close. Sounds lame now, but it
made my week! Little tricks like this will make you a bit happier during
those late night study sessions.

6.        Get to know the people living
in your hall. You are going to be
living next to these people for a year
and you may need to borrow more
than a cup of sugar from time to
time. Find out what classes they are
taking, their majors, find things you
have in common and hang out with
them.

7.        Be ready to adapt. College is
full of new and weird situations,
traditions and people. The best anecdote I have for this one is Santa Cruz's
“naked run.” Every year when we get the first rain students strip off their
clothes and go for what is literally a naked run all through campus.
Personally, water and nudity aren’t for me,  but I try to laugh off the
situation when hundreds of kids go streaking past my room. And hey, it is
just one more story to tell  friends back home!

8.        Finally, be persistent. If you don't get all the classes you want right
away don't stop trying. Many colleges let you “crash” (College Lingo: Crash is
to sit in on a class and hopefully get a permission code that will allow you to
officially enroll in that class. It often requires emailing the professor before
attending the class and perhaps a visit to your academic advisor's office)
classes. And if that doesn't work it's only one term and the class will
probably be around next time.

College has always seemed really far away to me and now that I am here I
don't think it has really sunk in just yet. It's fantastic, but it's also stressful.
You have to balance that bustling social life with academics and there is no
one to remind you what your homework was. Friendships are hard and
meeting people is sometimes overwhelming but everyone really does find
their place eventually and then this new and exciting life begins!